Sunday, October 31, 2010

Happy Halloween


Halloween has come and gone already. I organised a mini get together with parents and Emma's buddies, Ella, Rohan and Naomi.  I don't think I've mentioned Rohan or Naomi before in my blog, but we met Rohan and his mom Claire, at a preview class at Gymboree, Rohan and Emma had an instant attraction.  Naomi, we met her parents, Rich and Andrea through our church just before the girls were born.  We had a fun afternoon together. As you can see from the photos, Emma was a cow, Ella - Minnie Mouse, Rohan - Tiny Ninja, and Naomi - Bumblebee.  They didn't seem too phased about being dressed up.  Seeing our babies dressed up was super cute!


Rohan

Ella

Our moo moo cow

Naomi
Emma was walking non stop today and squealing so much, either she was thrilled to have so many visitors (tired of looking at her mom and dad), or she was so thrilled about being able to walk so much!
It's crazy, the past two days she's been walking more than crawling, and now today all she did was walk.


After everyone left, all the trick or treaters started knocking at the door, poor Em was so pooped, she just sat against the couch and watched the kids come buy and did not move, so we had an early bedtime for Emma.  During bathtime and bedtime I left candy on the front porch, well that went down very quickly, I'm pretty sure some kid just emptied the entire bucket into their basket.  After an hour sitting outside waiting for the rest of the trick or treaters the candy didn't even clear out.  Nonetheless, Halloween is always fun on Rustic Wood Lane, so many kids, and so funny to see the different mannerisms, some kids ask how many they're allowed to take, others will take two and quickly return the second one, others will take fist fulls, one thing though they're all very polite and will always say Thank You once they've taken their candy.

We definitely have to teach Emma to only take one treat, I can't imagine plowing through all that candy after trick or treating!

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Pumpkin Patch Oh Ooooh Pumpkin Patch


Saturday afternoon we (Rod, Emma and I) went with Amy, Adam and Ella to Ganyard Farms.  This is quite a popular place for families to visit before Halloween and Thanksgiving.  It's a huge farm with a Pumpkin Patch, Corn Field, Cotton Field, Hay Rides and Farm animals.  Kids get to learn about the farm, feed the animals, pick pumpkins, corn and cotton, go on hayrides, get lost in a corn maze (you get the idea).


I think we went a little late in the month, as all the good pumpkins were taken and the pumpkin patch was all trampled on.  Quite a sweet experience for the older children....it would have been a whole lot easier and more interesting for Emma if she could walk around.  But she got to play with the pumpkins, rolling them singing Row Row, sit in the hay, and see the animals.
We would like to think she had a good time.  Building up to this trip Emma would get all excited seeing pumpkins at the grocery store, always wanting to touch them, however when we arrived at the farm, we sat her down amongst a bunch of pumpkins and the poor baby trembled and burst into tears.  Not sure if it was too overwhelming the amount of pumpkins, or possibly the huge poster of a painted pumpkin height chart??

I was anticipating cold weather and having to bundle Emma in her beanie, gloves and scarf, but the weather was pretty warm, only requiring a light sweater in the late afternoon.  Last year this time I'm pretty sure we were in winter woolies.

It was fun going out in the pumpkin patch and picking out the "perfect" pumpkin. 5 years in the US and this is the first time we've got a pumpkin for Halloween.  It's going to be fun going to places like this every year and see Emma's participation grow.

Our little pumpkin


Sunday, October 24, 2010

14 Months


At 14 months, Emma has so many more tricks to talk about!
Everyday there is something new, it's hard to keep up.

Emma has become more talkative, more energetic, more demanding, more expressive.
She's always wanting what she can't have, and I feel like I'm forever saying, "No", "No", "No"!
We do try other ways of saying No, but "No!" comes easiest.
She definitely knows when she's doing something wrong, and for most of the time she listens to me, but every now and again she likes to test her and my boundaries. 

Her new thing now is when I ask her to laugh, she'll say "Ha Ha".  Which is the same "Ha Ha" she'll use to make for the sound of a Hyena.

Talking about animal sounds, Emma has become pretty good as this, she knows the sounds of a dog (woof), duck (went from quaa, to now clicking of her tongue), monkey (aah, aah), cow (went from moo to boo), sheep (baa), goat (baa), fish (sound with her lips), pig (grrrr, trying to make the snorting sound), owl (hoo hoo), elephant (she makes the sound and lifts her arm to make a trunk), chicken (also clicking of tongue), snake (sssss), she's learning bird, some other animals its more action than sound, so for butterfly she lifts both her arms trying to flap, a penguin she'll shake her body side to side for waddle,waddle, waddle, chameleon she'll smack her lips together and for a spider she'll raise both her hands in the air, making like she's singing itsy bitsy spider.  There are moments of progression and then regression, you and wonder whats going on.

She's defintiely trying to say words that we say, like flower, dirty, bye, hi, door, when I say up she says down, two, shoes, cheerios, nai nai (for milk), cheers, diaper, the other day I said something was disgusting, and I heard this little voice saying it back to me.  Too funny.

Other learning milstones, since about 6 months I've been using a bit of sign language to help Emma communicate with us, signs like, more, please, help, upstairs, thank you, all done, eat, stop.  Emma is using her signs alot more these days, and it definitely helps us understand what she wants, for the most part.
We've tried to signal sleep, but instead when its time for nap or sleep, she'll snore, whatever works!

Today we were watching Timmy Time, it's a show on Disney Channel about this little sheep and what he gets up to, no voices, just movement and animals sounds, Baa being the one used most.  For the first time today Emma was watching and when there was a funny part she laughed.  Rod says she's just like her mother, cos the part when she laughed was when the sheep slipped and fell.  I wonder if she really understood what was going on, or just coincidence.  Can't believe how our little girl is growing up, never thought I'd see my baby standing and resting against the sofa or ottoman, taking sips at her water, placing it on the tray, so adult like.  Growing way too fast.

We're reaching that point now where Emma actually understands what we say to her, can follow instructions, and takes things in when things are being explained to her.  So when we say something we really have to mean it and stick to it.  For example, if I ask her if she wants to go to the park, she'll quickly stop what she's doing, crawl toward me and cling to me like a monkey.  On Monday Amy and I took the girls to music class, we thought we'd let the girls play a bit before heading out.  Well I told Emma we were going to Ella, I tried to put her in her carseat, but Emma kicked up a fuss.  She started pointing at her stroller.  Now usually when we go visit Amy and Ella we always use the stroller, so I guess Emma couldn't understand why we were going in the car.  I had to explain to her that we had music class to go to, but were going to play at Ella first, so needed to use the car, well after that was all explained, Emma didn't resist going into her seat, and when we arrived at Ella's, well Emma was squealing with delight.
Every time she sees Ella it's a huge highlight of her day, so sweet watching them wave and squeal at each other, hug each other and then talk while playing, copying sounds.  With the aid of each other, they've both become so brave on the slide, going up and down on their own.  The slide in our neighborhood have just a few steps to crawl up and then a short slide down.  Em is so funny as she'll sit in the middle of the platform and start scooting.....mom gets a little inpatient and will help the process by pushing from behind.  the expression on her face coming down, priceless, thats Emma's expression, not mine, haha!

Emma continues to take a few steps at a time, tries to find her balance, walks another step, then thud, she falls.  We're just waiting for the day she'll just take off.  Her confidence is growing more and more.

As Emma continues to "talk", we can't wait to hear what kind of accent she'll have.  With her being home with me, and not in daycare, will she have the South African twang, or America twang?

This coming month we have some fun things to look forward to, Halloween and Thanksgiving.  Not sure yet what we're doing for Thanksgiving, but I know it'll include lots of eating.....for Halloween, we're having a little party for the babies, we get to dress them all up and take tons of pics!

I can carry on and on with more of Emma's getting up to's but best I end off her, instead of leaving my child to entertain herself.  14 months already....just last night I was trying to remember Emma when she was 4 months old, kind of hard to remember, time just goes by too quickly...I say that all the time...Motherhood and Parenthood continues to be filled with so much joy and excitement, along with the testing moments and challenges, amazing how those "bad moments" are soon forgotten when your little one does something new, or comes to you for comfort and wants to give you hugs and kisses without having to ask them.

Friday, October 22, 2010

Emma knows her name at 14 months

Emma knows her name, she started off saying BaBaBa when I asked her name, now it's EmEmEm.

Saturday, October 9, 2010

Now the Fun really begins

Emma is on her way to walking....uh-oh!!!!

Friday, October 8, 2010

Museum of Life and Science


On Wednesday Amy and I decided to take the girls to the Life and Science Museum.  Quite nice that for Durham residents it's free on Wednesdays, however I didn't read the fine print which says it's from 1pm only.
Oh well, we paid the entrance fee and still had loads of fun with the girls.


The most exciting part of the museum for the girls to see are the Farm yard and Butterfly house.
Emma and Ella were naming the animals, "Moo", "Baa", "Quaa" (for quack)
Times like this I wish Emma could run around, as she chose to try crawl and sit in the damp mulch.  Thankfully she didn't resist the stroller too badly when I told her I was putting her back in to see more.

We were lucky enough that in the butterfly house they were releasing a few butterflies.  Emma got to hold one, actually have one placed on her hand.  She was pretty fascinated by it, we just managed to get a few shots before she tried to touch it and it flew away.  Thankgoodness she didn't squish it like she did the ladybug at the driving range the other day.



So great to have places like this to visit with the girls.

Saturday, October 2, 2010

Emma gets Adventurous



The weather in Durham was beautiful today, sunny blue skies with a tinge of cool in the air, perfect weather to be outdoors, compared to two days ago we were cooped indoors as it rained non-stop.

Em and her clapper

Fox 50 hosted a Family Fest Day at the American Tobacco Campus. We thought we'd check it out and see what could be of interest to Emma. They had face painting, balloon art, live shows, a portable planeterium which I really wanted to check out, but was fully booked (sometimes I wonder if I go to these things more for me than Emma?).  The main event was a Duck Race, however naptime clashed with this, so we missed it.


One section where Emma could really participate was Noah's Landing. This is a zoo located about an hour away from Durham, and they had brought a few of their animals to the fest. This was a live touch and feel for Emma, and she thoroughly enjoyed it, touching some animals that Rod and I only touched for the first time today too.


African Tortoise

Bearded Dragon

American Alligator - really felt like wallet

Gecko - can't remember which exactly, the butt and head look the same - quite cute

NC Museum of Natural Science

Fiddling with the light switches

Emma and Dad
A nice way to spend part of a Saturday!  Emma was pooped after all this stimulation! This was Emma in her car seat, hand in her snack bowl, she had fallen alseep.

Row, Row, Row

This video was taken a while back. Em enjoys singing Row, Row, Row your boat. While chatting on skype the one day with Tash and Justin, they gave me incentive to teach this song to Emma.

Well not too long after, Em loved the song, and when I mentioned it, she would get into position, grab my hands and start pushing and pulling her arms, not moving her body back and forth. A few weeks later, we were sitting in her room reading a few books, when Em stood up against the glider, started pushing it back and forth and sang, "Row, Row Row", actually saying "Row, Row, Row". Another moment when I was lost for words and just beaming with excitement and pride. I was wondering how she knew to push the glider and sing the song, but I realised there were some days when I would just hold Em and rock in the glider, singing the song.

Now Em sings the song whenever she feels, and she finds actions to go with song, like rolling her cup back and forth on the floor, standing against a chair, or any object and rock back and forth, when I'm sitting she'll swing my legs side to side, or swivel the office chair side to side and sing. Just so cute how she associates the song to different things or actions. And at the end of the song there usually is a huge applause.

I didn't manage to get all of Emma's actions in this video unfortunately, just her singing, a little rocking and her gorgeous smile just for daddy.... Enjoy!